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2020.10.23 10:10 skywarriorpy Wife left for AP. Came back begging to take her back but now she doesnt know about my adult life

I (28M) married my wife (25F) 4 years ago. We married at young age. My wife was virgin when we got married but I had a lot of experience as two of my ex girlfriends were webcam models and I have shoot content with them ( with no face in it). About two years ago a new coworker came to my wifes office. She introduced me to him. Slowly she mentioned him a lot in our conversations and would talk about him alot. She grew distant from me and would spend the entire day on phone even on weekends. She would rather sit on couch with phone rather than going on date with me. This continued for 3-4 weeks. I knew something was wrong and I asked her about that. She came clean and said she had EA with him and had developed feelings for him. She said that she still loved me but we married young so she had not experienced outside world yet. I said that she should have thought this before marrying me. Marriage vows are not joke and they should be respected. She claimed that she would end things and would join IC to help her feelings. I agreed as I loved this woman. After two months we were happy or so I thought. She was showing same signs again. She said that she has to go on two week business trip. I knew something was wrong so I snooped through her phone. I dont know why cheaters delete message when they know that their partner is specialised in IT. I recovered messages and had proof that my wife and coworker were planning to go on vacation with each other. I collected proof and confronted my wife. She started crying and sobbing heavily. And said that it meant nothing and other bs stuff that cheaters say. I said that we were going to get divorced so we startedliving separately. After a week later she moved in with AP. I was crushed. She was love of my life and she destroyed our familyfor some external pleasure. I was devastated. I started drinking a lot. I felt emasculated and wanted to get over the feeling of sexual frustation that i had developed thinking about the question “was I not enough for her?”. I contacted my ex girlfriends to know if they need any male model in their scene. I am 6’3, fit and have big d so they asked if my wife was okay with it. I told them whole story and said fuck her. I will now even include my face in it. I was just completely numb. I thought my life was over and I wanted to earn some extra money to provide some basic utilities to homeless people. I wanted to do something good for the world before leaving the world. I started doing this along with my job. This was as a side job and did not involved any emotions as I wanted to get over the betrayal caused by my wife and feeling of emasculation. I did everything with dozens of girls. This was one of the methods to get over the love I had for my wife. After 7-8 months I had done over 70 scenes with around 25-30 different girls but I was still not able to forget my wife. Out of the blue, I recieve a message from my wife that if we can talk about reconcilation. Apparently she left AP after discovering he was married and was just using her sexually. She came out of fog and was feeling horrible about her behaviour and the pain she caused me. Her affair lasted only 3-4 months and since then she was going to IC and was more mature. I still love her but I dont know how to tell my wife what things I have done to cope with stress she caused? Will she able to get past the scenes I have shot as these include some of the very extreme hardcore scenes? How should I tell her? I still love her and want to reconcile. Any advice is welcome.( I really want to reconcile and be a happy family)
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2020.10.23 10:09 glez92 My old friends appear to be excluding my[28m] new girlfriend [28f]

TLDR: I have a new girlfriend who I really like but we keep arguing because my friends don't want to meet her and haven't invited her to anything, even though we get on really well with each other's families and with her friends. Looking for advice from internet randoms.
Hi all, got myself a little bit of a conundrum and I'd like to get the opinion of random people on the internet.
I have been dating my new girlfriend (we'll call her G) for 4 months now and things are really good between us, we are getting serious, and being in lockdown we have spent a good majority of our time together in the past 4 months. I don't have a huge degree of experience with long term relationships with my longest being 9 months when I was 19 years old which is why I am enlisting the assistance of everyone's favourite therapist, the internet.
We've met each others families and we get on really well and I've hung out with her friends a few times as well. I have a close group of school friends that I hang out with regularly however they have seemed disinterested in meeting her and when I tried to set something up to introduce her into the group one of my friends(friend A) was even quite rude. The other two (friends B and C) have seemed loosely interested but have never followed through and have yet to invite her to one of our hang outs.
Once I went to see friend A and she ignored my messages asking if G could come three times before saying that she felt unwell and could I just come on my own. When I was there she stated didn't want to hang out with a couple while they were in their "honeymoon period", but would be open to the idea in the future. I didn't think to much of this comment but G got quite upset when I told her later.
Now everytime I get invited to hang with these friends we end up having an argument as my girlfriend gets quite upset about not being invited. I've felt bad and very guilty but have gone anyway though much less than I normally would have. It's really shit as it's the only thing we argue about and otherwise we're really happy together even though it's early days.
We keep having the same fight and I don't know how to resolve it, what do I do?
I am seeing two of these friends tomorrow and have been thinking of bringing up the issue then, what is the best way to approach this?
Any advice appreciated!
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2020.10.23 10:09 aplbutrgr1 Boyfriend (M26) pursuing freedom before marriage to me (F23)

I (F23) have been dating my boyfriend (M26) for nearly three and a half years. We have been discussing how we want to get married and live together but he really wants to experience true freedom before that happens. We met on tinder and he was just looking for some fun experiences but we ended up seriously dating and falling in love. He wishes that we had met after he had spent more time exploring himself sexually. He feels that he has a restlessness inside that won’t go away unless he gives into these desires to experience other sexual partners or just to be on his own for a while and make independent decisions. I love him so much and I want to spend my life with him so I’ve been trying to cooperate and figure out how we can make it work. His therapist suggested that we go on a break and we kept trying to do that on and off for a couple weeks but it was too hard to be apart or not talk to each other. Now we are discussing the possibility of pursuing an open relationship. It’s not something that I want to do but it’s something that I am willing to try if it means that he can feel at peace with himself and be truly comfortable settling down with me. I am usually a jealous person and I don’t know how to settle those feelings of uneasiness. I don’t think an open relationship will work for us unless we can be completely honest with each other and not hide things but I am really scared that I will become way too jealous about even little things for this to actually work. I don’t know if this is something that should be a simple fix for the greater outcome (marriage) or if it’s something that I shouldn’t compromise on and I should break up with him. Sometimes I feel that I should give him an ultimatum but I really don’t want to risk losing him. He’s a really good guy and he loves me and cares about me so deeply but it’s like he’s wrestling with himself inside. I don’t know if I explained the situation well enough to get good advice so questions are welcome.
TLDR: my boyfriend wants to experience more sexual partners but wants to marry me at the same time. Do I allow him to explore or give him an ultimatum?
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2020.10.23 10:08 skywarriorpy Wife left for AP. Came back begging to take her back but now she doesnt know about my adult life

I (28M) married my wife (25F) 4 years ago. We married at young age. My wife was virgin when we got married but I had a lot of experience as two of my ex girlfriends were webcam models and I have shoot content with them ( with no face in it). About two years ago a new coworker came to my wifes office. She introduced me to him. Slowly she mentioned him a lot in our conversations and would talk about him alot. She grew distant from me and would spend the entire day on phone even on weekends. She would rather sit on couch with phone rather than going on date with me. This continued for 3-4 weeks. I knew something was wrong and I asked her about that. She came clean and said she had EA with him and had developed feelings for him. She said that she still loved me but we married young so she had not experienced outside world yet. I said that she should have thought this before marrying me. Marriage vows are not joke and they should be respected. She claimed that she would end things and would join IC to help her feelings. I agreed as I loved this woman. After two months we were happy or so I thought. She was showing same signs again. She said that she has to go on two week business trip. I knew something was wrong so I snooped through her phone. I dont know why cheaters delete message when they know that their partner is specialised in IT. I recovered messages and had proof that my wife and coworker were planning to go on vacation with each other. I collected proof and confronted my wife. She started crying and sobbing heavily. And said that it meant nothing and other bs stuff that cheaters say. I said that we were going to get divorced so we startedliving separately. After a week later she moved in with AP. I was crushed. She was love of my life and she destroyed our familyfor some external pleasure. I was devastated. I started drinking a lot. I felt emasculated and wanted to get over the feeling of sexual frustation that i had developed thinking about the question “was I not enough for her?”. I contacted my ex girlfriends to know if they need any male model in their scene. I am 6’3, fit and have big d so they asked if my wife was okay with it. I told them whole story and said fuck her. I will now even include my face in it. I was just completely numb. I thought my life was over and I wanted to earn some extra money to provide some basic utilities to homeless people. I wanted to do something good for the world before leaving the world. I started doing this along with my job. This was as a side job and did not involved any emotions as I wanted to get over the betrayal caused by my wife and feeling of emasculation. I did everything with dozens of girls. This was one of the methods to get over the love I had for my wife. After 7-8 months I had done over 70 scenes with around 25-30 different girls but I was still not able to forget my wife. Out of the blue, I recieve a message from my wife that if we can talk about reconcilation. Apparently she left AP after discovering he was married and was just using her sexually. She came out of fog and was feeling horrible about her behaviour and the pain she caused me. Her affair lasted only 3-4 months and since then she was going to IC and was more mature. I still love her but I dont know how to tell my wife what things I have done to cope with stress she caused? Will she able to get past the scenes I have shot as these include some of the very extreme hardcore scenes? How should I tell her? I still love her and want to reconcile. Any advice is welcome.( I really want to reconcile and be a happy family)
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2020.10.23 09:46 Syd_138 I'm at my heaviest ever, feeling disappointed with myself

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and he's been with me through a lot already. Since we started dating I gained almost 30 lbs, I'm so mad at myself. He says it's ok and he still thinks I'm gorgeous and sexy and everything, but I just can't believe him, I'm so disgusted with myself and have tried so many different diets and workouts, I just keep gaining. I'm working with my doctor, but so far nothing. I just had to vent but overall I just need some advice or something, has this ever been an issue with anyone else? And how did you work through it, or at least how can I feel better about myself?
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2020.10.23 09:44 Arctic_Flaym Is getting a hickey cheating?

I (17M) have been dating my gf (16F)(bisexual) for a while now and I love her so much, but one thing keeps bothering me. A while ago, she went to a party, got drunk, and came back with a hickey. She promised me that there was no making out or touching and that it didn't mean anything to her. She told me that many people at the party were hooking up and getting/receiving hickeys, and that the person(17F)(bisexual) who have my gf a hickey felt left out.
I believe her with my whole heart, but she said yes to the hickey. This happened around 7 months ago but I still think about it every day. I just can't seem to get it off my mind
To me, It makes absolutely no difference if it was to "practice", or just for fun or whatever. Getting hickeys from people at parties has no place in a monogamous relationship, and is in my eyes cheating. With or without making out, a hickey is on its own a form of cheating to me.
She also said that if she wasn't drunk she wouldn't have done it, which makes it feel even more like cheating because she knows it was wrong
I need advice on what to do going forward. She has apologised and I can tell she feels really bad about it. It happened a while ago so I want to move forward, but it still seems to bother me.
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2020.10.23 09:32 sadgirlhourzzz how to get over someone?

this is probably going to be messy, im sorry, but i could just really use advice on what to do.
i have a ex who ive known for 3 years. we started dating about a year ago then broke up, he cheated by flirting with other girls and that really broke me.
we stopped talking over the summer because i was so upset and sad about this, i really loved this guy, i was always loyal and tried my best to do whatever i could for him:(
so a couple weeks ago, i had the urge to talk to him again for some stupid reason, to see if we could be friends again and he agreed.
now all the feelings have come back:( i hate that i love him so much. i know hes no good for me but i just cant get over him because im too attached;-; i dont know what to do, currently crying over this because im just so upset. he says he still has feelings for me and i kind of do too, but i cant trust him not to flirt with other girls:( it sucks. i want to be with him but it hurts
any advice would be really helpful
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2020.10.23 09:21 sauwin Eating with mouth open.

34m here i started dating this great girl amlost 2 years ago. I have the best time with her, have meet her family and that is going great too. My main problem right now is she eats with her mouth open and always talks with her mouth full.
I know i am not perfect, have something that she might want me to get a handle on. But it gets annoying dating with her with a chewing sound all the time. I want to say something about her, yet not sound like a total asshole. Any advice?
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2020.10.23 09:17 throwRA_1234asdf I stayed with a cheater

I rarely post on reddit, so please forgive me for any mistakes as I usually lurk. I (19F) have been with my boyfriend (19M) for nearly 3 years now. We started dating in high school and are currently in our sophomore year of college at the same school and looking to move in together next year. As I mentioned, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. In the first month of that, he cheated on me with someone who is obviously much better looking than me (instagram model, on college babe accounts etc). I’m not ugly I’ll give myself that lol, but I’m not quite Total Frat Move Babe Material. I’m not a tall, tan, skinny blonde but rather a short, ~slim thick~ dirty blonde/brunette who is pale as all hell. Anyway, ever since then he has proven to me that he is sorry by getting completely clean from drugs (which he was on at the time), cutting off every girl from his socials without my asking, and all around being the perfect boyfriend. I truly believe that it was a blip very early in our now extremely loving and healthy relationship. However, as I mentioned the girl was clearly much prettier, skinnier, tanner and taller than me. These days I am always comparing myself to instagram models, which she was, and I had never done that before. I know he loves me but it is so hard to not scroll through social media wondering what I could be. I suppose it’d be easier to say I have forgiven the cheating, but not forgotten what I was cheated on with. I guess I just wanted to know if anyone else had been through this weird scenario, or a similar version of it, and how you got over it. I feel quite alone in this situation as no one else I’ve met has experienced it. If anyone else is willing to give advice I’ll very much appreciate that too lol, thank you in advance! ❤️
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2020.10.23 09:11 cnassif How do I find femboys

I'm a girl who happens to absolutely love how femboys act and look from a very young age, however because of the field I study in (pharmacy) it's impossible to find femboys and I have no idea where to look to socialize and get to know more about femboys. I remember the first guy I dated I was attracted to because he had long hair and very beautiful features that I looked at him like a princess. However he "grew out of it" and I wasn't suitable for him anymore. I genuinely want to know more but holy smokes it's borderline impossible in medical field. Please, if anyone have any advice it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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2020.10.23 09:11 sodahead94 A year ago I forgave my cheating boyfriend when I found out he was on dating apps. Today I am worried about his new friend showing him the app again.

For context: me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and after one year of dating I decided to take a job abroad with somewhat the intention of not moving back to our town. Some may say we should have broken up then because he wanted to keep living there and I didn't but we both agreed to do long distance because I thought we really loved each other and would find a solution at one point. I have to stress that he never gave me cheating vibes, had always been there for me to the point of stocking my fridge up when I was to busy with exams and tired to even sleep. I was very solid with this guys based on his acts and thought I could count on him no matter what.
Fast forward 6 months after I moved abroad we would still see each other every month and we would both spend money on travelling to maintain the relationship.
Problem is that at one point I saw both tinder and bumble installed on his phone and I woke up one morning to him swiping left and right while in bed with me.
I have no words to describe what followed after and I won't go into detail of how I called him out, the fight we had the crying and the pain. In short, I briefly ended things.
After a few week after our fight he took the train and visited me unannounced crying, expressing regret and saying that he made the mistake of his life. He justified his actions by saying that he felt that I would eventually leave him because he knew I hated our home town and it looked like I had a new life in the new city I was working in. He said he was feeling excluded and insecure but never went on any dates with anyone on the apps. He then proceeded to delete all from his phone and offered to let me regularly check. Which I did not because I knew its absurd and if he wanted to cheat he would have done either way.
I will probably get bashed a lot here but I eventually decided to give him another chance. I based my decision on the fact that he treated me well and never acted shady besides the dating app incident.
Well it has been a year since and we both moved together to a town in between the two locations. Ever since then my bf seemed honest. At times I do peak at his whatsapp and facebook list and never see anything wrong and he shows me everything he does. But recently he made a new friend at work- a guy who is single and out to mingle. I have never met him but I saw that he shows my friend the women he talks to on the apps and there is a part of me that is worried again.
I just wanted to write all this here to relieve some of the paranoia I still have and ask for some advice on how to not monitor my bf but kindly ask that he doesn't turn into his friend.
Thank you for reading and please be kind.
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2020.10.23 08:57 SeesawCommercial3270 Is there a way out of this unhealthy dynamic?

My partner (f, 22) and I (m, 30) are in a romantic relationship for around 9 months. Everything was fine in the beginning but a few months after we started dating, I noticed that she is often either physically unwell or mentally unstable. Physically, she periodically suffers from panic attacks, severe headaches, or fatigue spells. Mentally, she can be incredibly sad, devastated, or – the worst – neutral and passionless about everything (including me). Whatever happens, I always tried to support her as much as possible. I’m not sure if I’m unconsciously exaggerating but I am under the impression that she is feeling unwell around 70% of the time we meet.
At some point I came to the realization that the prospect of spending time with her is making me nervous. I started being constantly worried about both her physical and mental health. This lead to me anticipating that she might not feel well whenever we are going to meet and that I might be in for a rough evening/night or weekend where I’m going to spend a substantial amount of time comforting her and trying to make her feel better. I sort of got used to it (I want to be a source of support for my partner, after all) but also realized that I need some time between our time spent together simply to recover myself and recharge my batteries.
Unfortunately, over the last months, things got worse. She recently got diagnosed with depression and anxiety (but started seeing a therapist regularly and still is in the process of finding the right medication). In this time, however, she had several breakdowns that intensified the above dynamic. Sometimes I could be a source of support, sometimes I was overwhelmed and sort of paralyzed myself and didn’t know what to do (even though I tried my best).
Over time, she started blaming me to not be supportive enough while I expressed that I really try my best but that I get overwhelmed myself. When I told her my perspective, she said that she is never blaming me but rather states what she needs – physical comfort, someone around her, company. We had several talks about this but always seem to end up in the same dynamic. She needs help, comfort, reassurance. I support her as much as I can but there is always something wrong with how I did it.
Examples to illustrate the perceived dynamic (her perspective might differ obviously):
Overall, these are only some of many other instances that have all a somewhat similar pattern: She doesn’t feel supported enough while I don’t feel appreciated enough in the amount of support I’m able to give. I feel that this relationship is one-sided (which I told her and what shocked her immensely; afterwards we had some good weeks but the pattern returned). She feels her needs are not met. As a result, I feel guilty and bad for not supporting her enough. I feel that she doesn't see that I'm constantly worried. I either grow distant after her sometimes extremely devastating messages (which make me feel helpless) or I try to get closer but get hurt by her as a result (which makes me feel devestated).
After the last incident (2 weeks ago) that is sketched in the last point in the examples above, we broke up. I couldn’t take it anymore and told her that we need to go different paths after she bombarded me for two hours with sadness, tears, and accusations. Now she is at a friends place in another city, staying there for a longer time (maybe weeks or even months). She was recently letting me know that she feels better with the new medication and realized that in order for our relationship to work, she needs to be able to come around spontaneously, stay a few nights until she feels better, and need to be able to rely on me when she feels bad. She stated herself that she just needs someone around and that her mental health depends on that.
I understand those expressed needs but it puts me under a lot of pressure and I start wondering whether this relationship is worth pursuing if this dynamic keeps persisting. I cannot see her suffer so much and really want to give her all she needs but this constant worry about her really tears me apart. I love her a lot but I also realize that I cannot see clearly anymore. I would walk right back into her arms if I could but think that a more objective view from others would help me a lot to get the right perspective on this.
So my question for you all is: Can we get out of that dynamic while getting back to a healthy relationship? If you think we can, what advice would you give? If you think we cannot, how can I cope with the feeling of not having done enough/supported her enough?
TL;DR: My partner (f 22) and I (m 30) developed an unhealthy dynamic in our relationship where she doesn’t feel supported enough while I feel exhausted from the support I give. Is there a way out of this?
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2020.10.23 08:56 Ying-Yang812 My Friend is in a Toxic Relationship and it’s affecting the friend group

Forgive any grammatical errors, English is not my first language. I (F20) have 2 close friends which are (almost) all in the same friend group. There’s Em (F20) and Alex (M20) - fake names, obviously - Em used to date this guy, Leo (M20), in High School but broke up and have since been best friends.
Now let’s just say, their relationship is a weird one as it can get a little confusing. They are friends but sometimes they can act like boyfriend and girlfriend. Other mutual friends would ask me if I knew what was going on between them, and i’d normally just shrug it off. They are very close with each other as they share some pretty personal secrets with each other and they also almost always hang out with each other. When we were in High School, Em, Alex, Leo and I were in a friend group and would always hang out and such. However, due to an argument between Em and I, I no longer speak with Leo and even blocked him at one point because Em told me to. I had no reservations about this because to me, I always saw their relationship as toxic and I didn’t like Leo as a person anyways. It’s been close to 4 years since I’ve spoken to Leo and generally don’t even bring him up in conversation because it tends to be a sore spot with Em. There have been times, Em doesn’t invite me to things because Leo might be there. I have no issues with this as I know this is something that Em really cares about and I do not want to rock the boat.
However, a few weeks ago, Alex messages me and tells me about how he is stuck in the middle of Em and Leo’s relationship. He shows me screenshots of conversations between the 3 of them where Em asks Alex if he knew where Leo was but not to tell Leo that she asked this and Leo inviting Alex to go out and then later on telling Alex not to tell Em about it. Now this type of behavior, both Alex and I have seen during High School. Alex and I were always caught in the middle of their fights but now since I am no longer speaking to or about Leo, I no longer am in middle of it which leaves just Alex. I tell Alex that he should confront both of them if not, this behavior will continue. I also tell him that we’re all 20 now and should be behaving like grown ass adults instead of dealing with this hiding petty ass secrets thing. Alex agrees and we wait for the time to confront both of them about this.
The time never came because yesterday, Alex tells me that Em messages him passive aggressively and thanks him for lying to her. She explains that she knows Alex went out with Leo and that Leo asked Alex to lie. She also explains that Leo asks Alex to lie because Leo did something wrong to her but didn’t want to come see her so he made up an excuse to Em of not going out but ended up going out with Alex instead. Alex messages Leo and asks how Em found out about it. Leo tells him that Em went through his phone and found out but that now Alex apologized so him and Em are okay. The thing with that is Leo and Em might be okay but Alex and Em aren’t. There was a lot of back and forth between them but in the end, Alex decided to distance himself from the both of them until he can decide on what to do. From my perspective, I don’t like how Em quickly gets mad at Alex when Leo was the one that asked him to hide truth. Alex didn’t even know why he is hiding the truth for. It also sucks that because of this, friendships are ruined. I have made my opinions about Leo known to Em. I have told her in the past that I don’t particularly understand their relationship as they have known to have a cycle of hurting each other. There was one time where Leo, Em and I went out together and they argued with each other inside of a department store so loudly that other workers and shoppers could hear them and this fight also lead Leo to cry. To me, I don’t see how good of an influence they have on each other. I might be biased though because I usually only ever see the bad parts of they’re relationship.
At the moment, Alex I don’t know what or where to stand on this. Is there any advice that the fellow Redditors could share? Any advice would suffice. Thank you.
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2020.10.23 08:52 Mannygrimm Stuck in Pre-Relationship Limbo. Me M(20) Her F(19)

I want to preface this post with the fact that i dont post a lot on reddit, and dont really know a good format, so this is just gonna look like a big paragraph(Sorry!). Alright, so, i met a wonderful girl who will go unnamed about a month and a half ago. We met at the McDonalds drive thru, where i grab a coffee every morning. After we saw each other and spoke a few more times she asked me for my social media's, which i happily gave. After about a week of us texting on and off through Instagram, I asked her out on a date with the message " Hey _____, I think you're pretty rad and I'd really like to get to know you a little better! Do you wanna hangout or get a bite to eat sometime?", to which she said "Heck yea!". First "Date" went smoothly, we laughed, joked around, and i took her home afterwards and said my goodbyes with a hug(she isnt the kiss on the first date type). All is going smoothly, we're texting back and forth, making jokes, sharing pictures, and i ask her on a second date! Our local drive-ins was doing their last showing of the year, and it was The Nightmare Before Christmas. She said yes! I was super excited and hopeful that i would be able to get closer to her, maybe cuddle while we're watching the movie, MAYBE kiss afterwards. I get my blankets and pillows loaded into my truck and pick her up, off to the movies. We get there and everything is going great! We're joking around, shes showing me her animal crossing village and we're both having a great time. Dusk arrives and the movies begin, it was a double showing and the first movie sucked, like really sucked. It ends and she says shes cold, so i offer her the blanket in the backseat, she cuddles up in it next to me in the passenger seat and we begin to watch TNBC. Now is when i try to suggest we should get closer, without actually saying it(Dont know why i didnt just suggest it with my voice). I lift the middle console up and it opens up a big empty spot between us, and i put my arm up around the back of her seat. Thoughts of a great night where she warms up to me and cuddles into me remain just that, thoughts. It never happened, she never got closer to me, she never did any of it(albeit neither did i...). The night ends with another hug and another goodbye. At this point I'm wondering if shes interested in me at all, but the thoughts dont get too oppressive until a few days later. The next day she asks me if im coming through to get my normal daily coffee, i reply yes and she says shes freezing in the back. I offer to bring her one of my extra hoodies, she says yes and i bring it to her at the drive thru! She says she feels awful and i grab her hand and tell her she'll be alright, hand over the hoodie, and I'm on my way. Later that night she send me a pic of her in the hoodie, i told her she looks offensively cute and we continue a normal conversation. Even later that night, she says shes having really bad anxiety and asks me if she could sleep in the hoodie, because it makes her feel better, i say of course she can, and tell her that it makes me happy something of mine makes her feel better! The next day she said she made me an apple pie in culinary school! I'm feeling great, and my thought of her not actually being interested in me wain away into nothingness, she asked for my hoodie! She asked to sleep in it! She must like me? Right?... Anyways, we talk the next day and she says shes going to a corn maze with her family on Sunday, says i can come as long as her dad has work(because there would be an extra ticket). I say id love too, and everything is awesome. I mention seeing each other again before Sunday, and bring up the idea of bringing her to a HUGE mall shes never been to before, she says yes and we plan it for oct.20, Tuesday. I show up and knock on her door, meet her mother for the first time and her little siblings, and we're off. Date goes smoothly, she buys some stuff in the mall, we end up walking around for maybe 3-3 1/2 hours. Nothing happens to suggest romantic relations between us the whole time, hardly touching, not much of anything. Listen to music on the car ride home and we get back to her house, ANOTHER HUG, AND ANOTHER GOODBYE. Its at this point where my emotions get the better of me, imp fully convinced she's not into me, even though all of my peers say she obviously is. I HAD to tell her how i felt, so the next day i said this " Listen _____, idk how to say this the best but, I like you, a lot. You're a blast to be around, you're beautiful, you're charismatic, you're hilarious, and I just want you to know how I feel, because i don't want you to be confused. I'm sorry if this isn't what was happening, I think it's just responsible to be honest about my feelings." to which she replied "Awww omg dude. I like being around you too 🥺"(she says dude and my guy ALOT, just her type of language) I replied with " I'm not sure if a text message do my feelings justice tbh. I don't want you to think I'm not interested in you ____, because I am, and I can't really tell if the feeling is mutual so I just want to let you know up front with 100% transparency so you know what's up while we continue to get to know each other better." She then said " Thank you for letting me know. I can't wait to see you again 😊". Now, i know it may sound unreasonable, but these responses saddened me quite a bit, I've got crushing self esteem issues and to ME it felt like her responses were disingenuous. I KNOW ITS IRRATIONAL, and i know its probably stupid and I'm probably reading too much into this shit but its killing me. I laid out my feelings about being interested in her and liking her more than just a friend, and she didnt say the feelings were mutual, only that she liked being around me. Can anyone offer any advice on a next step, like what do i do from here? Do i continue to pursue her romantically? Did i fuck it up already? Any advice will be very helpful, and taken into full consideration. I'm not looking to get called stupid, or weak for having trouble dealing with my emotions, i just honestly dont know where else to ask people about this. TL;DR - GUY LIKES A GIRL ALOT, TAKES HER OUT ON A FEW DATES AND NOTHING ROMANTIC HAPPENS, QUESTIONING WHETHER OR NOT SHES INTO HIM EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS GIVING PLENTY OF SIGNS SHE IS -
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2020.10.23 08:48 Chrisc9234 EcoFi: The Future of DeFi

EcoFi: The Future of DeFi
The cryptocurrency markets are evolving and changing at an alarming rate. New projects are created on a daily basis in support of change from the old monetary system we have all come to know and hate. Immutable code, applications, decentralized governance entities and exchanges are bringing out the best of blockchain, but sometimes these projects start off with a loud eruption of activity and volume only to fade slowly when development ends or hits a standstill, or even when a clone with more innovation becomes more popular. This is a common problem in the cryptocurrency space that has effectively created and then terminated thousands of legitimate projects and ideas looking to make a difference in this new uncharted world of cryptocurrency. Innovation always catches up, this time in the form of EcoFi.

https://preview.redd.it/b6mapsxtjsu51.png?width=6510&format=png&auto=webp&s=89d799c00c9743fe07298d65fac88f6cf5adf998

EcoFi bills itself as "an open-sourced, permission-less and censorship-resistant protocol built to power safe and responsible innovation in the Decentralized Finance space." EcoFi is focusing on putting an end to the vicious cycle or life and death of new projects by rewarding the communities strength and adoption. It plans on accomplishing this by creating a unique marketplace that builds on the principles of DeFi token pairs and an exclusive marketplace that is housed on the EcoFi website.

https://preview.redd.it/akrsqrbujsu51.png?width=4234&format=png&auto=webp&s=8504d94735788ee75fbea54417450c6fdc3ccffb
The EcoFi economy will consist of 3 tokens: ECO, EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT), and Sprout (SPRT) to bring about an active and innovative marketplace.

ECO has a total supply of 10,000,000 tokens and this supply is capped. ECO is earned during limiting periods which will allow you to farm it. ECO presents an opportunity to pair it with other tokens to create new and diverse liquidity pools. Staking Liquidity tokens via the EcoFi website, users can earn SPRT tokens as rewards. These tokens can also be purchased on Uniswap. ***ECO'***s other utility will include using it to obtain unique farm-able NFT's along with curation of NFT's along with other algorithmic-ally backed assets.

EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT) will act as the governance token for the EcoFi ecosystem. It will allow holders to vote and help decide on future development, integration, and decision making in regards to the future of the ecosystem. EGT will also be utilized as a tool to receive airdropped ECO. The DAO Governance platform will be released at a later date. Early adopters and utilizers of the EcoFi economy will be rewarded in both EGT and ECO for helping share the EcoFi vision and helping build its community.

Sprout (SPRT) is the token that is rewarded for staking your ECO. As your yield begins to sprout up from staking, you will be eligible to earn highly unique NFT's not available for purchase. These NFT's will vary in scope, but will include connections to real world assets and even rare easter-egg NFT's.

The EcoFi tokens will be distributed as described below:
- 50% will be given away for public contributions
- 10% will be set aside for use as Eco Genesis Tokens
- 20% will be utilized for airdrops and farming
- 15% will be used for the Ecosystem and marketing
- 5% will be sent to the core development team
https://preview.redd.it/h8l14ihwjsu51.jpg?width=852&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef240f6bbee08301b52ea971a3e97a475cb656b6
It is important to note that from 10/23/20 to 11/3 is the EGT airdrop period. During this period, users will be airdropped 1 ECO for every 100 EGT owned. The public contribution period will also last during the same time period and it will include an ECO member sale of 5,000,000 ECO. After the DAO is live, you will be able to use your EGT to vote.
https://preview.redd.it/0145p4xvjsu51.jpg?width=924&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a3996925f2de9dbdd2297c5d5e3824756cb87df1
The team behind EcoFi includes a diverse group of developers, artists, traders, and investors that have been a part of the Forex and Cryptocurrency landscape since 2014 with a focus on Ethereum's blockchain and environment. The team has top level Ethereum development skills which will allow for a productive and smooth launch.

https://preview.redd.it/d7dc6v8vjsu51.jpg?width=931&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=11263b95088bb77fbcecd88f96a1b414aaaf9281
Creating a sustainable and active Cryptocurrency ecosystem is difficult over time. Providing a solution via community building/tokenomical development via a decentralized self governance reward system can be the answer to the well known project burnout problem. Unique tokenomics are a very big draw for EcoFi. Adding in unique NFT’s while also planning for the implementation of real world NFT use is not only innovative but setting EcoFi up for a strong competitive build which could potentially pave the way for further NFT usecase. Following the EcoFi community and contributing may turn into one of DeFi’s biggest game-changers.

Pertinent EcoFi Links:
- Litepaper: https://ecofi.io/ECOFI\_LITEPAPER.pdf
- Contact: [email protected]
- Medium: https://medium.com/@EcoFinance/ecofi-eclisping-the-possibilites-of-defi-64b7dcf23fc1
- Website: https://ecofi.io/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/finance\_eco
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCn\_pnNgrKWTsLSP5Jhi7MaQ
- Telegram: https://t.me/EcoFiOfficial
- Airdrop: https://t.me/ecofi\_airdrop\_bot

(I write articles and reviews for legitimate, interesting, up and coming cryptocurrency projects. Feel free to PM me to review your project. Thank you!)
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Disclaimer: This is not financial advice. The sole purpose of this post/article is to provide and create an informative and educated discussion regarding the project in question. Invest at your own risk.
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2020.10.23 08:45 Chrisc9234 EcoFi: The Future of DeFi

EcoFi: The Future of DeFi
The cryptocurrency markets are evolving and changing at an alarming rate. New projects are created on a daily basis in support of change from the old monetary system we have all come to know and hate. Immutable code, applications, decentralized governance entities and exchanges are bringing out the best of blockchain, but sometimes these projects start off with a loud eruption of activity and volume only to fade slowly when development ends or hits a standstill, or even when a clone with more innovation becomes more popular. This is a common problem in the cryptocurrency space that has effectively created and then terminated thousands of legitimate projects and ideas looking to make a difference in this new uncharted world of cryptocurrency. Innovation always catches up, this time in the form of EcoFi.

https://preview.redd.it/up8ewyohjsu51.png?width=6510&format=png&auto=webp&s=efc46fa2b0c10c0fccb7170a259a9ee8e05d54c6

EcoFi bills itself as "an open-sourced, permission-less and censorship-resistant protocol built to power safe and responsible innovation in the Decentralized Finance space." EcoFi is focusing on putting an end to the vicious cycle or life and death of new projects by rewarding the communities strength and adoption. It plans on accomplishing this by creating a unique marketplace that builds on the principles of DeFi token pairs and an exclusive marketplace that is housed on the EcoFi website.

https://preview.redd.it/kgw77eeijsu51.png?width=4234&format=png&auto=webp&s=ec77c446521a420f76f17070f665e3e7efc1d36f
The EcoFi economy will consist of 3 tokens: ECO, EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT), and Sprout (SPRT) to bring about an active and innovative marketplace.

ECO has a total supply of 10,000,000 tokens and this supply is capped. ECO is earned during limiting periods which will allow you to farm it. ECO presents an opportunity to pair it with other tokens to create new and diverse liquidity pools. Staking Liquidity tokens via the EcoFi website, users can earn SPRT tokens as rewards. These tokens can also be purchased on Uniswap. ***ECO'***s other utility will include using it to obtain unique farm-able NFT's along with curation of NFT's along with other algorithmic-ally backed assets.

EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT) will act as the governance token for the EcoFi ecosystem. It will allow holders to vote and help decide on future development, integration, and decision making in regards to the future of the ecosystem. EGT will also be utilized as a tool to receive airdropped ECO. The DAO Governance platform will be released at a later date. Early adopters and utilizers of the EcoFi economy will be rewarded in both EGT and ECO for helping share the EcoFi vision and helping build its community.

Sprout (SPRT) is the token that is rewarded for staking your ECO. As your yield begins to sprout up from staking, you will be eligible to earn highly unique NFT's not available for purchase. These NFT's will vary in scope, but will include connections to real world assets and even rare easter-egg NFT's.

The EcoFi tokens will be distributed as described below:
- 50% will be given away for public contributions
- 10% will be set aside for use as Eco Genesis Tokens
- 20% will be utilized for airdrops and farming
- 15% will be used for the Ecosystem and marketing
- 5% will be sent to the core development team

https://preview.redd.it/2g7xy9ahjsu51.jpg?width=852&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3674d9b107ad96bea6ea210df9cd1a2d1ab98480

It is important to note that from 10/23/20 to 11/3 is the EGT airdrop period. During this period, users will be airdropped 1 ECO for every 100 EGT owned. The public contribution period will also last during the same time period and it will include an ECO member sale of 5,000,000 ECO. After the DAO is live, you will be able to use your EGT to vote.

https://preview.redd.it/kacfw6xfjsu51.jpg?width=924&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e02568faa9eb098f6b959654830a0541cb90bdc6

The team behind EcoFi includes a diverse group of developers, artists, traders, and investors that have been a part of the Forex and Cryptocurrency landscape since 2014 with a focus on Ethereum's blockchain and environment. The team has top level Ethereum development skills which will allow for a productive and smooth launch.

https://preview.redd.it/jhldatdejsu51.jpg?width=931&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ce799eef6ad43e341aa75598f0eb014310c0f22
Creating a sustainable and active Cryptocurrency ecosystem is difficult over time. Providing a solution via community building/tokenomical development via a decentralized self governance reward system can be the answer to the well known project burnout problem. Unique tokenomics are a very big draw for EcoFi. Adding in unique NFT’s while also planning for the implementation of real world NFT use is not only innovative but setting EcoFi up for a strong competitive build which could potentially pave the way for further NFT usecase. Following the EcoFi community and contributing may turn into one of DeFi’s biggest game-changers.

Pertinent EcoFi Links:
- Litepaper: https://ecofi.io/ECOFI\_LITEPAPER.pdf
- Contact: [email protected]
- Medium: https://medium.com/@EcoFinance/ecofi-eclisping-the-possibilites-of-defi-64b7dcf23fc1
- Website: https://ecofi.io/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/finance\_eco
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCn\_pnNgrKWTsLSP5Jhi7MaQ
- Telegram: https://t.me/EcoFiOfficial
- Airdrop: https://t.me/ecofi\_airdrop\_bot

(I write articles and reviews for legitimate, interesting, up and coming cryptocurrency projects. Feel free to PM me to review your project. Thank you!)
-------------------
Disclaimer: This is not financial advice. The sole purpose of this post/article is to provide and create an informative and educated discussion regarding the project in question. Invest at your own risk.
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2020.10.23 08:44 Timmy1239212 Should I ask her out a second time?

I've really liked this girl a long time and I finally got the balls to talk to her a few times and ask her out 3 months ago. She said yes and seemed excited to hang out but on the day of the date she cancelled and said she was having a rough couple weeks and wasn't in a good headspace. I told her no problem and to let me know if she ever felt like going out again. I haven't heard anything about it since, but I've chatted a couple times with her around the place I work and we're still friendly. Next week I'm starting work at a new place and I won't be seeing her at all so I was wondering if it was worth asking her out a second time, it's for sure bad that she never got back to me however she never flat out rejected me so I'm not totally sure how she feels, she is quite introverted so maybe she wouldn't be the type to ask someone out. Any advice would be much appreciated
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2020.10.23 08:44 Iso2D My (20M) gf (20F) told me that she's jealous of another guy getting close to their crush. What should I do?

Hi, this is my first post on here so sorry if it's not in the right format. Like the title says my gf told me she jealous of her guy friend getting close with his crush. She at least told me it and asked me if it's wrong, so as of right now I'm not concerned that she's thinking of cheating but, it's still something that has me thinking at night. Honestly I'm at a loss of what I should be feeling, we've been dating for about 5 or 6ish years and only have had one major thing happen between us because some guy was at her college manipulated her into questioning about being with him instead. She's dealt with depression essentially her entire life so I feel like this attachment to her friend is something that she's confusing with romantic intent over something that just platonic. What are y'alls thoughts and any advice on what I should be doing.
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2020.10.23 08:42 Chrisc9234 EcoFi: The Future of DeFi

The cryptocurrency markets are evolving and changing at an alarming rate. New projects are created on a daily basis in support of change from the old monetary system we have all come to know and hate. Immutable code, applications, decentralized governance entities and exchanges are bringing out the best of blockchain, but sometimes these projects start off with a loud eruption of activity and volume only to fade slowly when development ends or hits a standstill, or even when a clone with more innovation becomes more popular. This is a common problem in the cryptocurrency space that has effectively created and then terminated thousands of legitimate projects and ideas looking to make a difference in this new uncharted world of cryptocurrency. Innovation always catches up, this time in the form of EcoFi.

EcoFi bills itself as "an open-sourced, permission-less and censorship-resistant protocol built to power safe and responsible innovation in the Decentralized Finance space." EcoFi is focusing on putting an end to the vicious cycle or life and death of new projects by rewarding the communities strength and adoption. It plans on accomplishing this by creating a unique marketplace that builds on the principles of DeFi token pairs and an exclusive marketplace that is housed on the EcoFi website.

The EcoFi economy will consist of 3 tokens: ECO, EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT), and Sprout (SPRT) to bring about an active and innovative marketplace.

ECO has a total supply of 10,000,000 tokens and this supply is capped. ECO is earned during limiting periods which will allow you to farm it. ECO presents an opportunity to pair it with other tokens to create new and diverse liquidity pools. Staking Liquidity tokens via the EcoFi website, users can earn SPRT tokens as rewards. These tokens can also be purchased on Uniswap. ***ECO'***s other utility will include using it to obtain unique farm-able NFT's along with curation of NFT's along with other algorithmic-ally backed assets.

EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT) will act as the governance token for the EcoFi ecosystem. It will allow holders to vote and help decide on future development, integration, and decision making in regards to the future of the ecosystem. EGT will also be utilized as a tool to receive airdropped ECO. The DAO Governance platform will be released at a later date. Early adopters and utilizers of the EcoFi economy will be rewarded in both EGT and ECO for helping share the EcoFi vision and helping build its community.

Sprout (SPRT) is the token that is rewarded for staking your ECO. As your yield begins to sprout up from staking, you will be eligible to earn highly unique NFT's not available for purchase. These NFT's will vary in scope, but will include connections to real world assets and even rare easter-egg NFT's.

The EcoFi tokens will be distributed as described below:
- 50% will be given away for public contributions
- 10% will be set aside for use as Eco Genesis Tokens
- 20% will be utilized for airdrops and farming
- 15% will be used for the Ecosystem and marketing
- 5% will be sent to the core development team

It is important to note that from 10/23/20 to 11/3 is the EGT airdrop period. During this period, users will be airdropped 1 ECO for every 100 EGT owned. The public contribution period will also last during the same time period and it will include an ECO member sale of 5,000,000 ECO. After the DAO is live, you will be able to use your EGT to vote.

The team behind EcoFi includes a diverse group of developers, artists, traders, and investors that have been a part of the Forex and Cryptocurrency landscape since 2014 with a focus on Ethereum's blockchain and environment. The team has top level Ethereum development skills which will allow for a productive and smooth launch.

Creating a sustainable and active Cryptocurrency ecosystem is difficult over time. Providing a solution via community building/tokenomical development via a decentralized self governance reward system can be the answer to the well known project burnout problem. Unique tokenomics are a very big draw for EcoFi. Adding in unique NFT’s while also planning for the implementation of real world NFT use is not only innovative but setting EcoFi up for a strong competitive build which could potentially pave the way for further NFT usecase. Following the EcoFi community and contributing may turn into one of DeFi’s biggest game-changers.

Pertinent EcoFi Links:
- Litepaper: https://ecofi.io/ECOFI\_LITEPAPER.pdf
- Contact: [email protected]
- Medium: https://medium.com/@EcoFinance/ecofi-eclisping-the-possibilites-of-defi-64b7dcf23fc1
- Website: https://ecofi.io/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/finance\_eco
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCn\_pnNgrKWTsLSP5Jhi7MaQ
- Telegram: https://t.me/EcoFiOfficial
- Airdrop: https://t.me/ecofi\_airdrop\_bot


(I write articles and reviews for legitimate, interesting, up and coming cryptocurrency projects. Feel free to PM me to review your project. Thank you!)
-------------------
Disclaimer: This is not financial advice. The sole purpose of this post/article is to provide and create an informative and educated discussion regarding the project in question. Invest at your own risk.
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2020.10.23 08:39 robs3ss3d The guy I like is Unique...

This is a long one....but please help me!
I've had a crush on him for a little over 2 years. But his body and verbal signals are so different than any other guy I've met. It's been impossible to tell if he does or doesn't like me back. Every time I say "no, he doesn't like me," my mind reminds me of this or that, which could be a sign that he does. Ugh. He's a shy guy, and when I first met him I thought he was cute, but we never spoke to each other. We were around each other because of mutual friends. I didn't think much of my attraction to him because I never thought he'd like me, he didn't even speak to me. Though, I could tell we were both conscious of eachother, again I didn't think much of it. Then, one day, he saved me, out of the blue, from a drunk guy who was strongly coming onto me outside my apartment. It was like from a movie and that was it, I was in love. Since then, he has quietly helped me in so many ways, more than he even knows.. because of him, I've grown to love myself more. We have so many similar qualities and interests. There are so many things about myself that I don't like, but seeing them through him, has helped me realize that I deserve to be loved, just as he does. Among these things is that he has some mental illness and anxiety, and so do I. I understand that even if he did like me that it might be hard for him to show it and so do I. I'm a bit self conscious around him and so I get too shy to flirt with him. And up till the last couple months, he hasn't flirted with me either, though we have exchanged more and more words. But lately he's said and done things that have been confusing me. Up till this point, because we're both communication inept, I've been going off "vibe" rather than the typical "20 signs he likes you" blah blah blah stuff. But lately, it's been pretty obvious that he's flirting. And I would be thrilled, but I'm cautious, because I know myself as well. I know that I am able to flirt more easily with people I'm not interested in. So as much fun as it is to have him flirt with me, I don't know if it's because he's gotten bolder, or if he's just not interested so it's easy to flirt with me. I'm also worried that I've just liked him long enough that I'm just reading into things that aren't there. I'm a little hesitant to put this up here, because what if he happened to read this, he'd know it was him right away... but anyway, here is some examples of the small flirtations he's done. There are way more than this, but these are ones that I can actually explain. -We were about to go into a restaurant to eat together. He insisted on buying even though there was no talk of this being a date or a "payback" lunch. Right before we walked in, he stopped what he was doing and stared at my hair and asked if I'd changed it. When I told him I hadn't and had just straightened it, he continued to stare at it and me and mentioned several times how it looked different and that it looked good. He continued to look at me until I was unnerverd and felt myself blush. Then he kind of smirked and then opened the door for me. I was in shock through the rest of the lunch and kept fumbling over myself. Towards the end he suddenly looked my straight in the eyes and said "speaking of relationships" and then he like, stuttered for a second, looked away, and then changed the subject. -When our group were all standing outside one day, I felt a slight chill but didn't say anything. Next thing I knew, he was wrapping a blanket around my shoulders. We looked at eachother and didn't say a word. Then he smiled at me and walked back to where he'd been. My face was red and I was glad it was dark out, cause I could feel everyone staring at us. -We went with a group of friends (and his mom. Lol! She had him young and so they're friends like brother and sister.) to an Airbnb in a larger nearby city to celebrate his and another friend's birthday. We stayed there for two nights. We had tons of fun running around the city together. On the second night there, I did some purposeful flirting. I was even surprised myself. I put on a tank top and then a large, extra loose T-shirt over the top. The kind that's kinda sheer. Then I walked around like that and while I was talking to him, I let it slip off my shoulder and acted like I hadn't noticed. (Cringe, I know.) We had a good conversation and he ended up trying to tickle me for awhile. We went to bed. The next morning, we were all getting ready for the day, and he came out of the bathroom in just a towel. (Eeek!! That's 10x the teasing I'd done the night before..) He kept going back and forth from his room to the bathroom like this. I just figured that he'd forgotten things. But he was like this for a while and he winked at me at one point when I couldn't look away. Geez! Then, his mom came downstairs. She saw what was going on, nudged me and smiled and then said "oh, quit showing off!" To him. He blushed! And was all "Mom!!" And then he went back to the bathroom and didn't come back out till he was fully dressed. -One day, we were eating at a restaurant with a group of friends. He was telling us that he was going on a tinder date the next day. I felt a little jealous but for some reason, I was okay with it. I couldn't figure out why until later, my friend told me that he was asking me specifically over and over again if I thought he should go. I hadn't noticed that. I thought he'd been asking everyone else because I wasn't the only person responding. I was saying things like, "I'm sure it will go fine." "She looks nice" and things. He then told us that he believes that he should know someone and be friends for like 2 years before dating, and then that you should date for 6 months before you become official. "That's alot to ask of a tinder date." He said. He then turned to me and said "(my name,) what do you think? Would you wait for me?" I couldn't pass up the opportunity, so I said flirtatiously, "oh, (his name,) I'd wait forever for you." And we laughed. But our friends' jaws kind of dropped. -hugs me a lot. But they've been getting longer and squeezier. The other day he slowly rubs my back and then he left that hand on my back when he let go. He held eye contact with me and let his hand trail off me as he walked away. -He's been complimenting me more and more. Pretty much any time I see him he will compliment something. To the point that I now know what colors and hairstyles he likes on me most. So the other day I did all the things he liked and I swear I almost knocked him over. He couldn't stop complimenting me. He told me that he was "living" for my outfit and that I looked "stunning." He's said I looked "lovely" and "beautiful" several times too. -he once kept staring at my chest and I started feeling really self conscious, like, (girls, you know how it feels when guys stare at your boobs, right? Even if you do like them. One or two glances is acceptable but if it continues...) Anyway, so he kept looking and then I think he realized that he was being obvious because I started blushing. And then he said he was looking at my necklace. He said it he "liked it." Then, my best friend was there and she said "yeah, it's a fox, it's her spirit animal." Then he made eye contact with me and said, "I love it. It's cute." When I said I went red....
-sigh- anyway, as you can see, there are so many reasons to feel like he likes me. But I'm still afraid of making any more moves. He's not always this flirty. I honestly only get to see him a few times a month for a few hours at a time. Sometimes there's spurts where we're together all day, or we see each other every day for several days in a row. But for the most part, it's sparse. And sometimes, he's stand offish, and quiet, or talking to anyone else but me. Sometimes I worry that he knows I like him and so he's avoiding me. But then sometimes I worry that he's doing these things just to fluster me because he knows I like him, etc.... Anyway, what should I do? I'm thinking about getting him a bracelet for Christmas. I've given him some other gifts in the past for events. But I want to get him something for Christmas and I saw this one and it kinda lept out at me and I instantly knew he'd love it. It's the colors he's made clear he likes to see on me. And it's in his style. But I'm hesitant. Would he want something like that from me? If he doesn't like me, would he just be inconvenienced by a gift like that? Would it make it super obvious that I have a crush on him? But is it kind of time to let him know anyway?
Well, if you have any thoughts or advice, please let me know. Thank you.
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2020.10.23 08:39 Chrisc9234 EcoFi: The Future of DeFi

EcoFi: The Future of DeFi
The cryptocurrency markets are evolving and changing at an alarming rate. New projects are created on a daily basis in support of change from the old monetary system we have all come to know and hate. Immutable code, applications, decentralized governance entities and exchanges are bringing out the best of blockchain, but sometimes these projects start off with a loud eruption of activity and volume only to fade slowly when development ends or hits a standstill, or even when a clone with more innovation becomes more popular. This is a common problem in the cryptocurrency space that has effectively created and then terminated thousands of legitimate projects and ideas looking to make a difference in this new uncharted world of cryptocurrency. Innovation always catches up, this time in the form of EcoFi.

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EcoFi bills itself as "an open-sourced, permission-less and censorship-resistant protocol built to power safe and responsible innovation in the Decentralized Finance space." EcoFi is focusing on putting an end to the vicious cycle or life and death of new projects by rewarding the communities strength and adoption. It plans on accomplishing this by creating a unique marketplace that builds on the principles of DeFi token pairs and an exclusive marketplace that is housed on the EcoFi website.

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The EcoFi economy will consist of 3 tokens: ECO, EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT), and Sprout (SPRT) to bring about an active and innovative marketplace.

ECO has a total supply of 10,000,000 tokens and this supply is capped. ECO is earned during limiting periods which will allow you to farm it. ECO presents an opportunity to pair it with other tokens to create new and diverse liquidity pools. Staking Liquidity tokens via the EcoFi website, users can earn SPRT tokens as rewards. These tokens can also be purchased on Uniswap. ECO's other utility will include using it to obtain unique farm-able NFT's along with curation of NFT's along with other algorithmic-ally backed assets.

EcoFi Genesis Token (EGT) will act as the governance token for the EcoFi ecosystem. It will allow holders to vote and help decide on future development, integration, and decision making in regards to the future of the ecosystem. EGT will also be utilized as a tool to receive airdropped ECO. The DAO Governance platform will be released at a later date. Early adopters and utilizers of the EcoFi economy will be rewarded in both EGT and ECO for helping share the EcoFi vision and helping build its community.

Sprout (SPRT) is the token that is rewarded for staking your ECO. As your yield begins to sprout up from staking, you will be eligible to earn highly unique NFT's not available for purchase. These NFT's will vary in scope, but will include connections to real world assets and even rare easter-egg NFT's.

The EcoFi tokens will be distributed as described below:
- 50% will be given away for public contributions
- 10% will be set aside for use as Eco Genesis Tokens
- 20% will be utilized for airdrops and farming
- 15% will be used for the Ecosystem and marketing
- 5% will be sent to the core development team
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It is important to note that from 10/23/20 to 11/3 is the EGT airdrop period. During this period, users will be airdropped 1 ECO for every 100 EGT owned. The public contribution period will also last during the same time period and it will include an ECO member sale of 5,000,000 ECO. After the DAO is live, you will be able to use your EGT to vote.
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The team behind EcoFi includes a diverse group of developers, artists, traders, and investors that have been a part of the Forex and Cryptocurrency landscape since 2014 with a focus on Ethereum's blockchain and environment. The team has top level Ethereum development skills which will allow for a productive and smooth launch.

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Creating a sustainable and active Cryptocurrency ecosystem is difficult over time. Providing a solution via community building/tokenomical development via a decentralized self governance reward system can be the answer to the well known project burnout problem. Unique tokenomics are a very big draw for EcoFi. Adding in unique NFT’s while also planning for the implementation of real world NFT use is not only innovative but setting EcoFi up for a strong competitive build which could potentially pave the way for further NFT usecase. Following the EcoFi community and contributing may turn into one of DeFi’s biggest game-changers.

Pertinent EcoFi Links:
- Litepaper: https://ecofi.io/ECOFI\_LITEPAPER.pdf
- Contact: [email protected]
- Medium: https://medium.com/@EcoFinance/ecofi-eclisping-the-possibilites-of-defi-64b7dcf23fc1
- Website: https://ecofi.io/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/finance\_eco
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCn\_pnNgrKWTsLSP5Jhi7MaQ
- Telegram: https://t.me/EcoFiOfficial
- Airdrop: https://t.me/ecofi\_airdrop\_bot


(I write articles and reviews for legitimate, interesting, up and coming cryptocurrency projects. Feel free to PM me to review your project. Thank you!)
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Disclaimer: This is not financial advice. The sole purpose of this post/article is to provide and create an informative and educated discussion regarding the project in question. Invest at your own risk.
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2020.10.23 08:33 JNo0on36754 My wife (30f) and I (32m) are headed for divorce after 14 years (married for 4). My life is falling apart.

Hi all, looking for advice on the next steps and how to move forward with everything.
Background: I guess I should start out that our relationship has always been good, or so I and everyone around us thought. We'd have our random fights about little things here and there, but nothing that was ever anything we couldn't or didn't get past.
For the last two years, a few people from her work and one of her close friends started opening up to her about open relationships and how it's really worked for them. Something we've technically never talked about, but we also said that we were our only person, and as soon as we started to stray that we'd end things before one of us cheated. Last October she brought up that she was interested in maybe trying this in our relationship, as we had been together for a long time, she wanted to maybe experience new things without losing the relationship. Balled my eyes out, telling her that I really didn't understand, and how upset I was with her even bringing it up... I said I'd think about it but it wasn't something I was totally okay with.
For the next few weeks, she kept bringing it up... each time it made a mess of me, really struggling with the fact that I couldn't be that someone she experienced these new things with. She never could explain that part. Finally a few weeks in and after having listened to multiple podcasts and reading up a ton on the subject, I told her that I knew I didn't own her... and thus couldn't control this situation. I explained that even if we were 100% solid in our own relationship, that she was risking our relationship by moving forward with it... and if that was something she was willing to risk, I'd force myself to trust that everything would be okay.
February rolls around, and I get laid off from my job due to COVID... and quarantine hits and her job requires her to work from home for months. The first time she's ever had to work from home, so it was understandably a huge change for her. We'd spend nights together hanging out and watching movies, as we couldn't really go anywhere being that I was high risk and literally everything was closed. Admittedly having lost my job and her being interested in an open relationship looming in my head, I fell into quite a heavy depressive state. My motivation dropped through the floor. I'd still be looking for work, but nobody was hiring, and it being this long since being laid off, I'm still unable to find a job.
I fell into the habit of self-preservation mode. I did the first thing my mind knew how to do in regards to surviving. I'd game late so I could interact with friends online. Gaming was a coping mechanism for me when I was younger. It was my escape. But gaming late meant that I'd be up late and sleeping late. She grew resentment over the year (without saying a word) of us not doing more together (even if there wasn't anything we could technically do) and in August she told me that she had lost feelings for me and that she was considering separating. I told her that separating is baby steps for divorce... and was completely blindsided by it all. She refused couples counseling and told me that she just wasn't as into me as she once was.
At that point, I feel like my heart has been shot at close range. My brain couldn't make sense of anything she was saying, and she couldn't, or wouldn't elaborate on why she suddenly felt this and didn't say anything for the past year... other than that she didn't like conflict and was hoping things would change (without me knowing anything was wrong TO change.)
We get through that fight without any decisions being made but now I know she's considering leaving. I was left in limbo without any real direction on where this relationship was going, or what to do next. The next few weeks I'm left without any real idea as to what she's doing, or what we were going to do with the relationship so I'd bring up at random asking her what she was feeling. Hating that we were in this limbo, I felt silly going to watch a movie with her or kissing her goodbye/goodnight. All of it made me feel like I was just chasing her... like a puppy dog.
October rolls around I've finally started going to counseling for myself. Thinking I needed to work on me a bit, as that was the first advice I've read everywhere. I asked her again what she was feeling and she got angry that I kept putting her on the spot, and told me that she thinks we need to separate for a bit... and I asked if that was officially what we were doing, and she replied: "I don't know."
I've been even more broken since that convo. I started thinking about how close her parents and I were, and how they were the parents I never really had. and that I'd be losing them in all of this as well. All of her and my good memories and how I'd never want to experience this with another person ever again. My life at this point feels shattered.
I started stupidly snooping on her phone. Because maybe there was already another guy? Maybe her conversation with a friend could explain the sudden change in her mood. Trying to maybe understand where all of this came from. And it was just filled with mean and untruthful things she's said to her mom and friends about me. Her mom must think I'm a lazy piece of shit at this point. All of her friends just encouraged her to leave me after she fed them half-truths about everything going on. Not a single person she told was actually told any truths on the matter.
All I want to do is tell her mom the truth. I could care less about what her friends think of me at this point. They were eager for the relationship to be over anyway. One of which is going through a divorce herself and negativity/misery love company.
Am I wasting my time here, wanting to correct those wrongs? I want to let her mom know what really happened... because it's clear she has no idea.
I can't leave the apartment, I'm still unemployed, and I don't exactly have a family member or friend in the area I could lean on if I were to leave. I'd be homeless. In my heart, all I want to do is have us both stay here and work through things.
Am I wasting my time wanting to fix our relationship, if she doesn't seem interested in doing so?
Have others been in this limbo before? Not knowing how to move forward?
Tldr:
After 14 years in an apparently very happy relationship (four years married), wife tells me that she no longer is happy with me and that we've "grown apart" within the last year. Says it predated COVID but nothing she's saying really matches up as we were going on dates and doing stuff before COVID happened. It's like she's made up this story in her head as to why she wants to hate me, but none of it is true. We're in this strange limbo and not sure how to proceed.
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